Thursday, 4 January 2018

Starting All Over Again

Happy New Year, everyone, and welcome to 2018! Today’s topic brings the song, “Goin’ Back to Alabama” by Kenny Rogers, to my mind, especially that part that says;

“You know a man who walks by the side of the road
Can turn himself around.
He can pick himself up;
And dust himself off;
And start all over again”.

Starting over again is part of our lives. As a believer who trusts in the Lord Jesus Christ, you will have reasons to start over, from time to time. Why? Because you are a human being! As human beings, we fall over and fail; we crush and maim; we blow it and sin and we rebel against God.

It’s a well known fact that at the beginning of the year, many people attempt to start life all over again. Unfortunately, for most of them, at the end of the whole year, they find themselves right where they were. If you have been trying to start over but have not been successful, chances are high that you’ve been repeating the mistakes you’ve been making all along.

The Book of Nehemiah tells us the story of Nehemiah as a personal private journal. It tells us about devastation and then paints us a picture of hope, not despair; and renewal and of starting and rebuilding. The entire city of Jerusalem was torn down because God punished the sin of His people through exile and destruction. Those who returned were living in rubble, unsafe and unhappy.
Do you ever feel that way, sometimes? Do you ever look around you and get the sense that other people; that their lives, families, hopes and future, maybe their jobs, schooling, business, spiritual and emotional lives, are in tatters? That was how Nehemiah felt. But rather that surrender to despondency and/or denial (which is the mistake we make) over the desolate city of Jerusalem, he grieved, fasted and wept and cried to God. And then, Nehemiah starts to believe and hear from God about starting over. By the end of Chapter 2, Nehemiah affirms thus: “The God of heaven will help us succeed. We, his servants, will start rebuilding this wall”.

Another character who embraced the opportunity to start his life all over is Jacob (Genesis 25-33). A lot of things had gone wrong in the life of Jacob;
1.   The quest for wealth and power.
In Genesis 25:26-34, Jacob, in return for a plate of food, asked for his brother’s birthright. The rights and privileges of the firstborn have been historically and culturally revered. Firstborns are groomed as heir to the family’s wealth and fortune, and exude a lot of power and authority. Let us agree that Esau was unwise and careless but Jacob took advantage of his older brother’s weakness and went for the ‘kill’ as a result of his covetousness.
2.   A deceiver and a fugitive.
As if acquiring his brother's 'elder' position wasn’t bad enough, Jacob went further to steal Esau’s blessing from their father, Isaac, on his death bed. This was probably the last straw for Esau, who developed pure hatred for his brother, Jacob, causing Jacob to flee from Esau’s threat to kill him (Genesis 27:41-42).
The meaning of the name, Jacob means deceiver; very fitting for a man who had deprived his brother of his numero uno status and usurped his blessing in a deceptive manner. By Genesis 32, Jacob had had enough of the ‘hide and seek’ game with his brother. He was now a very wealthy and powerful man but emotionally, he was a ‘basket-case’. He reached out to reconcile with his brother, Esau, but he was still apprehensive (Genesis 32:3-21).
3. Divine intervention.
Jacob knew he couldn’t repair his past alone; neither could he start his life all over until he confronted his past and was done with it. He had tried to connect with his brother through emissaries, and through gifts but his fear remained. In Genesis 32:22-32, Jacob sought divine intervention. He got loads of solutions. First, he got a name change. His name was amended from ‘Deceiver’ to Israel, meaning ‘triumphant with God’. For Jacob, a changed name meant a changed man. It was the same way with ex-Saul becoming Paul. Secondly, Jacob received divine blessing.
Starting over
The New Year provides another opportunity to start over again. We need to prayerfully get rid/let go of those things that have not augured well for us - bad habits, addictions, poor relationship management, indiscipline, unseriousness, etc, and embrace a character change through the work of the Holy Spirit. It is not a pleasant experience and it takes time but we must be ready to obey and hold fast to God during the process.
Starting over may require a confrontation with your past. This could be very painful and fearful and your current status in life or other things may not be enough to cover it up. When you seek biblical counseling to deal with your past, you just may find the key to killing the problem forever.

One thing is certain; our God is a God of second chances and fresh starts. Things do not need to get worse before you retrace your steps and start all over again. No matter how horrible the situation seems, it cannot be beyond the intervention of and redemption by our Lord. Remember, “With God, nothing shall be impossible” (Luke 1:37).

Philippians 1:6, “There has never been the slightest doubt in my mind that the God who started this great work in you would keep at it and bring it to a flourishing finish on the very day Christ Jesus appears” (MSG).



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