BIBLE TEXT: EPHESIANS 4:17-32, CEV
17 As
a follower of the Lord, I order you to stop living like stupid, godless
people. 18 Their minds are in
the dark, and they are stubborn and ignorant and have missed out on the life
that comes from God. They no longer have any feelings about what is
right, 19 and they are so
greedy that they do all kinds of indecent things.
20-21 But
that isn’t what you were taught about Jesus Christ. He is the truth, and you
heard about him and learned about him. 22 You
were told that your foolish desires will destroy you and that you must give up
your old way of life with all its bad habits. 23 Let
the Spirit change your way of thinking 24 and
make you into a new person. You were created to be like God, and so you must
please him and be truly holy.
25 We
are part of the same body. Stop lying and start telling each other the
truth. 26 Don’t get so angry
that you sin. Don’t go to bed angry 27 and
don’t give the devil a chance.
28 If
you are a thief, quit stealing. Be honest and work hard, so you will have
something to give to people in need.
29 Stop
all your dirty talk. Say the right thing at the right time and help others by
what you say.
30 Don’t
make God’s Spirit sad. The Spirit makes you sure that someday you will be free
from your sins.
31 Stop
being bitter and angry and mad at others. Don’t yell at one another or curse
each other or ever be rude. 32 Instead,
be kind and merciful, and forgive others, just as God forgave you because of
Christ.
INTRODUCTION
We have been told
that our attitude has to do with the way we think, feel, and behave. Those are the reflections of
our attitude. How do we come about our thoughts, feelings and behaviour? From
the things we hear, see and experience. Our passage above describes the life of
the unbeliever, which should be the old life of the Christian, and then goes
further to spell out the rules for the new life.
In the old life, the following was predominant;
§ Useless thoughts
§ Ignorance
§ No relationship with God
§ Hardness of heart - stubborn
§ Ungodliness
§ Wickedness (and given to indecency)
§ Rudeness
§ Telling of lies
§ Laziness
§ Stealing
§ Obscene conversation
§ Blasphemy, etc
The old life is
described as the old attitude. This old life is not in agreement with what the
Almighty God desires from us and that is why Apostle Paul spent time to teach
the people of Ephesus about Christ and the new way of life. The old way could
not bring us salvation, redemption, and divine reception. It was a worthless
life; a meaningless life; and all because of our attitude.
The
main cause of that old attitude is the wrong beliefs we have about life. We see life
through the things we believe and experience and these control our conduct and behaviour.
What we believe becomes very powerful because they determine what experiences
we will have in life.
Take
for instance, a situation where you had a bad experience, may be a bad
relationship. As you dwell on it and listen to other people’s stories, you
begin to form an attitude of “all men/all women are the same”. Over time, you
find yourself going from one bad relationship to another - just to further
confirm your thinking that all men/women are the same.
Job
3:25, NIV: “What I feared has
come upon me; what I dreaded has happened to me”.
Any
situation in life, whether good or bad, has to do with the focus of our attitude.
In order to embrace the new life, Apostle Paul calls
us to abandon the way we used to think and to depart from the way we used to
behave;
Ephesians 4:22-24, NKJV:
“22 that you put
off, concerning your former conduct, the old man which grows corrupt according
to the deceitful lusts, 23 and be renewed in the spirit of your mind, 24 and that you
put on the new man which was created according to God, in true righteousness
and holiness”.
To
change our old attitude, we need to change what we believe – in our minds. The
power to change our minds is in the word of God. Let us ponder over a few
areas;
1.
"For as he thinks in his
heart, so is he." (Proverbs 23:7).
The Bible is telling us that “we are what we think”. Your thoughts reflect who
you are and show in your behaviour. In reality, no one really knows what you
are thinking, except you and God. To change your attitude is something that
only you and God can work out — it has to take place inwardly – the renewing of
the mind.
Proverbs 4:23, NIV: “Above all
else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
2.
“If you faint in the day of
adversity, Your strength is small.” (Proverbs 24:10). How
do we react to difficult situations, trials and tribulations? We grumble and
complain and murmur… we put the blame on someone or something… we lament and go
into self-pity… then we turn to prayer and fasting. Our reaction is our
attitude to our faith.
Romans
8:28, NKJV: “And we know that all things work together for good to those
who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose”.
It will serve us better to take all our matters to God first
and then calmly, go over the situation to discover the hidden lesson.
Philippians
4:6-7, “6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer
and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace
of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your
minds in Christ Jesus”.
3.
Galatians 5:19-21, "Now the works of the flesh
are evident, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry,
sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish
ambitions, dissensions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and
the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past,
that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God".
What is our attitude to sin? Some
of us do not take sin seriously. We justify sin - “I had to drive against
traffic to get here on time”; we condone sin – “it was just a small lie”. Were
we to appreciate the enormity of harm that sin does, we would wage war against
it. How do we react when people point out our errors? We deny… argue… defend… and
even insult them. In some cases, people leave the church. Not because they will
change but just to avoid people poke-nosing in their affairs.
Romans 6:23, “For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our
Lord”.
CONCLUSION
Philippians 2:5, “Let this mind be in you which was
also in Christ Jesus”. Apostle Paul is encouraging us to have the type of
attitude that Jesus had toward God’s will and toward people. Jesus did not
throw his status around, despite his divinity; he submitted himself to God’s
authority. He was disciplined and obedient. He trusted God to provide for him;
and he ‘went about doing good’.
The mind of Christ was not full of mischief, selfishness,
wickedness, greed, lust, fraud, ignorance, fear, disrespect, ingratitude,
irresponsibility, etc. Without the mind of Christ, we cannot make progress,
whether spiritually or physically. It is only the mind of Christ that can get
us into heaven.
Philippians 4:8, NIV: “Finally,
brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right,
whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is
excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things”.
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